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[quote=Anonymous]OP, I really think it's time to go to therapy to learn how to set boundaries with your own parents. You expecting your inlaws to suck up bad behavior and then getting upset with them for complaining about it is concerning. Even if your inlaws decide for the sake of peace to just stay away, you still will have parents who are going to get more and more emboldened because you are afraid to set limits. You are part of the drama. The key to peace is to learn to set reasonable and fair boundaries. That doesn't mean scolding both sides like they are young children. It means accepting your role as well, learning to manage YOUR emotion and learning to to calmly set clear boundaries in a respectful way and enforce those boundaries.[/quote]
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