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Reply to "if you or your spouse cheated- how did you tell the kids?"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Expecting someone you harmed to be complicit in covering up the way in which you harmed them so you can still look good to others is insane. Just think about that logic. If you don’t want your kids to think badly of you, don’t do things that will make them think badly of you. It’s that easy. Any cheater that is angry at the person who told their kids what they did (ex spouse, aunt, uncle, in law, whoever) is 100% missing the point. Stop focusing on how people find out what you did and start doing the therapy and introspection necessary to figure out how to help those you hurt heal. This isn’t about YOU. Cheaters aren’t the victims. [/quote] +2 Would you lie if your spouse went to prison? [/quote]
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