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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The posts not supporting OP either have problematic children, or they are just trying to stir the pot.  Ignore, OP. Don't bring it up in discussion - these people will never admit their issues. [/quote]

OP is being confusing. She doesn't want to stay at the house because of violent nephew, but will stay at the house with violent nephew if Inlaws really want her too, but she doesn't want to stay AND they aren't asking for input on the house she doesn't want to stay at. OP needs to decide if she can/wants to manage her own children around nephew or not. If she does, then stay and ask to provide input on the house; if not, stay elsewhere. But if OP is only staying for 1-2 nights, OP shouldn't get to provide input on the house where people are staying for a week. [/quote]

I'm not confused at all.[/quote]

NP. I am confused. I am confused by anyone whose child had been hurt by another child would ever subject their kid to staying under the same roof as a child who has proven violent tendencies, ever. [/quote]

But OP would do it because her in-laws want her too?????[/quote]

I understand it. OP is saying that for the sake of others, she would be willing to maintain this super-high level of vigilance for a shorter period of time. But it is not realistic to be so vigilant for longer (especially if OP cannot count on her DH to supervise closely enough). So only a short visit can be done with enough safety.[/quote]

Right...but when it was suggested to her that OP be proactive by sending them links of places she would deem safe/desirable, she backtracked and said no no, I don't want to be proactive because I don't think they want us to go and they're just being polite and what does it all mean.[/quote]

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