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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If you don’t want to be with SIL why are you pretending it’s about the rooms?[/quote]

We would stay with them if the rooms were suitable. The difficulty is that explaining we don’t want our nephew unsupervised with our kids would kick off a huge and unnecessary family drama— we don’t care if he’s medicated/in therapy/doing sports, we aren’t risking our kids safety and it’s not up for discussion. 
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So then why do you want them to ask for your input on the house if you never intend to stay there?  [/quote]

Because if it’s something that really matters to them we could do it for a couple of days with the right accommodations. [/quote]

So then the cousins violent behavior isnt really an issue if you would "stay anyway". You are confusing. [/quote]

+100. Exactly this. Pick a lane, OP.[/quote]

Agree[/quote]

I can’t tell if the “confused” posts are in good faith, but just in case:

We would spend 1-2 days at the beach house staying with the in-laws if our accommodations were such that we could lock a door at night between our kids and oldest cousin— so no wandering out to the bathroom at 2 a.m.  The rest of the time we watch the kids like hawks and the only time we don’t is when we’re asleep. [/quote]

OK, so...why don't you send around links of places that will work for you?

[Confusing excuses because you don't actually know if they want you, and you're just as happy to stay in a hotel, etc.]

There's an easy way to get what you allegedly want--it is called being proactive--but you refuse to do it.[/quote]

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