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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What are the best ways? Do apps really work? Straight married man here. Accomplished professionally, relatively attractive for middle aged professional.

(To preempt the irrelevant questions: wife has lost all interest in sex, gained 50 pounds, and refuses to try losing weight. But we still get along fine and I don’t want to divorce which would crush the kids.)[/quote]

My DH had a lot of success finding his (single) APs at a bar/restaurant his buddy/“business partner” owned. He’d go over most nights after family dinner, or stop by after work and decide to just stay there or take his barfly AP to expensive dinners instead of coming home. The other APs before this were women he’d met through networking (he’s in communications so lots of teaming up on campaign pitches, making referrals for business, etc). So you might try those approaches. It has worked for DH for the last 7 of our 20-yr marriage.

PS I weigh 5lbs less than when we got married (128 lbs), three teenagers, $300K base corporate job, and I’m a cancer survivor with the unfortunate result that the massive radiation led to extensive nerve damage and made sex painful for me and less pleasurable for him. Hence his quest for 20something pussy.[/quote]

I feel like this board overestimates the ability of the typical middle aged man to get 20 something year old women.[/quote]

Uh oh. This post (which is absolutely right) is likely to draw the attention of The Mid-40s Guy Who Screws College Girls. He's a real thing on DCUM and smells out threads to come and brag on them about how college students are falling into his bed all the time. He swears he's not a sugar daddy in any way, which makes it even funnier to read his posts. Apparently his maturity is oh, so appealing. [/quote]Meanwhile, OP said nothing about looking for a 20 year old, or even someone younger.  But oh how some of you love to project.[/quote]

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