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[quote=Anonymous]I have a child who did not respond to consequences. We were discussing an ODD diagnosis but didn’t get there but we eventually learned that this kid was 100 percent motivated by attention. Negative attention meant escalation in behavior. We did parent training (look into the Kazdin method) and the focus was on positive reinforcement. We only ever give consequences for hurting (to emphasize how wrong that was). I would be something we could 100 percent enforce like loss of screen time. If you are chasing him you are escalating turning into a game. Pick something and do it consistently. But ensure you are saying what he should do too[/quote]
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