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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don't normally reccomend this but in your situation, Laura Doyle could really help.

Get a coach and join the community. Scores of women married to men on the spectrum there. It could be like a whole new marriage in a matter of months. [/quote]

Agreed. This approach works well with men like this. Little responsibility and a lot of praise. [/quote]

The benefit of this approach is that while you don't get the help you need because it will never happen (he can't focus on this many people), you might get a better connection between your children and their dad and you with him. [/quote] I’d rather bang my head against a wall.[/quote]

+1    I pretty much live like this, and I need to find a way to get out.   I don't know if my husband would qualify for this diagnosis, or if he's just an immature jerk (so many similarities to people describing their partners here but I just don't know) , but I wanted a PARTNER in life.  Not a perpetual child that pouts when they aren't massaged enough.   I just lost all feelings and don't want it anymore. 
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“immature jerk who pouts when they don’t get their own way” is being an immature jerk. Not autism. My dad (likely undx’d autism) is extremely responsible when it comes to house & kids, and basically does whatever my stepmother tells him to do. [/quote]

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