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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I would not want my child saddled with a partner who comes to the table with $200K plus in loans without the potential income to pay for it. I mean, what is her plan? Guaranteed they'll get married and the next thing you know kids arrive and she suddenly wants to be a stay at home. Prenup that makes her loans her (and her parents' responsibility). I honestly would question this woman's judgement. Is your son's GF willing to have a small courthouse wedding and have mom and dad spend money they might have spent on a wedding on the loan instead? Or is she a princess who is going to want it all and doesn't view HER debt as truly her's to repay? Total Mrs. Degree BTW. ---mother of two, has always worked full time, financially responsible [/quote] There’s really a lot of misogyny squished into a small space here… Her plan is presumably to pay off her loans over 15-25 years or to take a position eligible for PSLF. Her parents money is not her money regarding a wedding. OPs son also has to be ok with such a wedding. Prenup is unnecessary on student loans. A woman with student debt who has a wedding is a princess, what is a man who has a wedding if he has student debt? Car loan? “Mrs. Degree”? Because she went to an elite school? You sound bitter.[/quote]
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