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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]DH lost his mom early, she was 49. When my Dad was sick and struggled with dementia and Parkinson’s, dh was supportive and understanding just like I was long ago in the early 90s when his mom died suddenly. I do not understand what is “proper grief” to you OP? 
IMO, there is no defined proper grief and closure. Now your DH deals with grief and he also has to deal with you minimizing his grief.
I would take a good look at myself if I were you. You have painted yourself a perpetual victim and you might not realize it but many perpetual victims suffer from NPD. Certainly your story fits the narrative in which you developed insecure attachment style which can lead to you always perceiving yourself as a victim. Plus your rant about just get over it, paints you as a person that lacks empathy for others while you have it spilling over for yourself.[/quote]

OP again.

Wow, you sound judgmental. Are you a psychologist or something? Or did you spend too much time on Google?

And where exactly was I ranting? Please enlighten me.[/quote]
Seems i am right. Your response is true to your narc nature. Nothing your fault, attack, blame, undermine.[/quote]

OP.
You sound obsessed by narcissism. Why? Have you had a bad experience with one?
What does narcissism have to do with feelings after a bereavement, or grief?

In any case you still haven't explained where I was 'ranting'.

You sound stressed.[/quote]

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