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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous] OP can start here for large sample of non-objective UVA strat rankings. https://www.greekrank.com/uni/35/sororities/byrank/[/quote] Ugh. I couldn't get past "top tier girls." Yuck. So glad my daughter found a great group of friends and none of them decided to rush. [/quote] It’s just a term and mostly just applies to wealth at UVA. It doesn’t mean they are any better than anyone else but girls have to be mature enough to understand that. Generally they do and are very happy where they end up. Others will drop out of rush and it could be a humbling experience for some. Frankly it’s not THAT bad even if the process is painful when it’s happening. My DD had a very tough and humbling rush compared to her friends but she now says she wouldn’t be happy in any other sorority than the one she’s in. She ended up in the right place. One thing that they will hear throughout rush is “trust the process” and while I felt for my DD last year and didn’t want anyone to say those words to me at the time, it really was true. I will also say that while her first year best friends ended up at several different sororities, they all remain friends and no one feels better than anyone else. My dd knows several people in top tier sororities and none of them are judgmental of her or consider her “less than”. It’s just not as bad as some anti Greek people think. [/quote] It sounds pretty bad TBH. [/quote] +1 I'm so glad my daughter decided not to rush. She definitely ended up in "the right place" by not going Greek to begin with! So much unnecessary stress and angst. Over what, exactly? [/quote] Oh please. If you have a well adjusted and confident kid it's not a big deal at all. Mine laughed her way through the process and got a nice bid. She wasn't stressed at all.[/quote] :lol: If you have a well-adjusted and confident kid, they won't need to rush at all. They'll have made plenty of friends the old-fashioned way. [/quote]
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