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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op - some good answers in here… I think some of it is jealousy - NOT of not working at all (I was so depressed) but of the time flexibility. I just don’t think i could possibly get that flex unless I start my own thing and I’m too highly comped to take that leap [/quote] Do you think it's guilt at all? You said you were depressed when you stayed home. Did you feel guilty about that depression? Like you should have felt fulfilled in the role of SAH mother and spouse? That could play into it too. Now when you see happy go lucky SAH parents, it angers you that they could take on that role without burden.[/quote] Op - maybe! I definitely felt like I had to ‘do it all’ and cut way down on help to justify not working and that was so grueling and not fun - so I did feel guilty [/quote]
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