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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What is move important to you - not shelling out as much as you could to care for your mom, or a lasting, positive relationship with your only sibling? There’s your answer.[/quote]

I think what’s most important to me in this scenario is asserting boundaries.  In addition to providing vastly different levels of support between my brother and me, she also ignored signs of the sexual abuse I was experiencing (after my first grade teacher evidently called a meeting with her), provided resume support and networking opportunities for my brother (but not me), and even petty stuff like getting my brother nice Christmas presents while getting me crappy ones (typically clothing several sizes larger than I wear).  On top of everything, she was severely emotionally and physically abusive.

If this sounds like sour grapes, it is!  I don’t feel like I owe her anything, frankly, now or ever.  I think it would be much harder for my brother to say the same.[/quote]

This is all valid until the last sentence. [/quote]

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