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[quote=Anonymous]OP, the real issue is why are you so devastated that your family member who was clearly out of line did not seem to have a great time? This is obviously her issue and not yours. You need to focus more on your own needs and not take things so personally. My sister has a personality disorder and sometimes does things like this and I just call her out by saying something like, "Well hosting is a lot of work and on top of that it is pretty expensive. I'm not willing to host a Christmas lunch, but if you want to do that next time, that is fine with me. The Chinese restaurant down the street delivers if you are still hungry."[/quote]
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