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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Your DD can get engaged. She can get married even. Ask them to sign a pre-nup valid till they are childless, which allows them to have an easy divorce and no spousal support incase the marriage does not work out. They each walk away with their own money. Tell your kid to not have a kid till she is 32. By that time, both the parties will have a firm idea how well suited they are and whether they should have kids together. It is really as simple as that. 23 is a great age. Get engaged. Get married. Have prenup for childless years. Don't have kids for the next 9-10 years. Once they have kids - there should be no prenup. Money is joint. Marriage is forever. They should have enough financial cushion for SAH parent, job loss, underemployment etc. Congratulations. This is not a bad thing. [/quote] Bad advice…have kids sooner! Late 20s is perfect.[/quote] Yup. Try to have first one around 28-32.[/quote]
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