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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]No you don't confront him, what is there to confront? Poor guy, has probably felt this way his whole life but is too scared to be his true self. You want to blow up his life at this point? Please think this through.[/quote]

My Dad has a VERY distinct name and a business with that name and was STUPID enough to use his real name with his trasgender dating profile. So there is NO hiding this. If my cousin found it his clients will find it.[/quote]

Why in the world is this anyone's business but his? NO that was not "stupid" you are a hateful shit.[/quote]

NP. FFS, READ what the OP has been posting before you call OP names. You're showing your own ignorance of what the full story is.

OP has said that 
(1) Dad is in a "macho" profession. 
(2) Dad still works, and has clients in his profession. It follows that OP means these clients are likely to have an issue with it if they discover dad is on this site -- no matter what the reason from dad's side. Are the clients "hateful," PP? Sure, whatever, but you have no idea if dad needs those clients not to bail on him. Making a living and all that. 
(3) Dad was indeed stupid, certainly incredibly naive, to use his real name. On this or any website. It's not "stupid" [i]because[/i] it's on a trans site, it's stupid because it violates the most basic internet security protocols for ANY type of site. 
(4) OP said in one post that they would not be surprised if dad harmed himself if his presence on this site were known. THAT is a huge red flag for ensuring dad understands he must ax that profile with his real, identifiable name immediately.

I loathe posters like you who accuse OPs of being horrible when it's unjustified. What's hateful is you not paying any attention to the actual story but cranking up your personal indignation to 100 without all the facts. [/quote]

BRAVO!!![/quote]

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