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Reply to "Getting Divorced. People Say “I’m sorry.” Why? "
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP I am with you. I also had Borderline spouse. While there is sadness from not having the ending I originally hoped for, there is happiness about being able to go on and liven peace.I hear these "I'm sorry to hear that"responses and realize they are not accurate. In my experience they were more than just words to fill the air. People felt bad for me, some people even cried. The reality is they had no idea the hell I was living in that led up to this point, so they had no clue that they should in fact be saying "Congratulations!" Going through this has taught me that a better response forpeople in the future who go through divorce is "Thanks for letting me know. How are you doing?" That way if there are doing great, they have the perfect opportunity to say so.[/quote] Thank you PP. Thus is really the kindest, most generous thing to say. [/quote]
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