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[quote=Anonymous]He disappeared for a month? I’d be done, I have platonic friends that don’t treat me this shabbily no way would I put up with it from someone I was sleeping with. 
If you do want to keep seeing him, you’ve gotten some great advice on page 5, you deserve an actual conversation, with a solid rationale on why he disappeared and why he’s going away with his ex. Kid or no kid, if he’d like to be with her, he can be, he doesn’t need you. 
For those who say “divorce is different”, “they’re still a family”, that’s just nonsense. If you like your ex that much, then you don’t need to be dating. OP’s guy is taking advantage of the fact they were friends (and nobody wants to believe a friend would treat them badly) and is then using the “but it’s because of the kid and it’s Christmas) to make OP put up with behavior she’d normally not tollerate. 
I’d tell him to enjoy his family and not to contact you again. Then if he does, don’t engage, {no means no” and he needs to respect that. Remember, you can always get a restraining order against him, and I would if he contacts you after you tell him to leave you alone. Remember, he had you once, he disappeared, then he reappears which is shady a.f, and then he adds that he’ll be enjoying his ex over Christmas. All around, not a good guy.  
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