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[quote=Anonymous]I am sorry. I am a DW and I am with your DH on this one.  He is the guest of honor. As such he should not be asked to do anything that you can outsource. I also agree with you that your guests should not be asked to help.   [b]The only time I would expect your DH to help if you were strapped for cash and had to DIY.    This does not seem to be the case.  In anycase, you, your DH and your guests should not be running around during the event to make things happen. You should just enjoy the evening. Why should anyone be looking after the kids? You need childcare. [/b]
  
I agree that you need a day of coordinator and you need childcare.  Outsource, outsource, outsource.

You are stressed and are sensitive.  You must understand the personality of your DH and come to the realization that he acts like this.  It seems that you guys do not do big celebrations routinely and so you are blindsided. But, now  you know.

An important thing - you are doing a whole lot of work to do something really special for your husband.  You have already done 90% of the work.  Now, for the last 10%, do it gracefully so that he can be thankful of your effort. Don't mess it up by fighting with him.  Handle it with grace.

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