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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Re your existing problem that you've already brought to his attention: "Fine. If you fix the grout by next Sunday, great. If not, on Monday I'll get it fixed" And when Monday comes, just call and make the appointment, don't discuss it with him. FYI I've been married 25 years and this was our issue. I started this way, then moved to getting things fixed while DH was at work....meaning, I STOPPED identifying house issues. So in your example, I would NOT tell DH the grout needs fixing. I'd just get it done while he was at work. [b]Is it fair? No[/b]. Does it get the job done AND save you countless of hours of frustration? YES[/quote] I think it's completely fair. The person who is in charge of the home takes care of these things, and if they have the means to hire out, why not? If OP's husband wants to be a homemaker so badly, he can quit his job. [/quote]
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