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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Mistake - "Drinks turned into dinner." If the date was to meet for drinks, then that’s where you should’ve ended it. You need to learn how to conduct yourself with men if you have certain expectations of how they will treat you. You were too available, plain and simple.

No to date #2. [b]He doesn’t respect you.[/b] Do better next time. Stay true to yourself. I don’t care if you’re starving. If the date is for drinks, have your drink or 2 then leave! I don’t care if the conversation is so good or he is so fine. Leave when the originally planned date is done. All this post-game analysis is you knowing you messed up, but trying to pin it on him.

If you’re true to yourself, you’ll find the one.[/quote]
This poster has been on the internet reading too much girl-game content. I’d agree if he asked her for a netflix date or sex right after dinner, but this is so benign and a yellow flag at best. If she won’t put constraints on her time for dinner, how can you expect him to? Dude isn’t a mind reader. How could he not respect her if she never made her standards known? Especially when 90% of women in this market don’t have that standard at all.

My father taught me a long time ago that it is a mistake to expect a man to be your husband before he’s your husband. There *is* an element of teaching men how you expect to be treated, now whether you want to do that or not is on you.[/quote]

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