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[quote=Anonymous]I agree with a PP that infidelity is often equivalent to stealing. If a spouse is spending marital money - and in a marriage, all money is marital IMHO - on a lover, that's a theft. It's also a theft of emotional energy. And it's not just the sexual infidelity, it's all the behaviors that go into sustaining cheating. Lying, deceiving, hiding information, it spirals totally out of control and affects every area of the couple's relationship. I think it's fine if people want to have open marriages where dating other people is agreed upon. But if you choose to marry someone who you KNOW requires monogamy, and you violate that, you are breaking your contract with your spouse. And that's more than just a legal agreement. I'm not religious but I feel marriage is a sacred promise. Whatever the two people promise each other. One partner can't just change the fidelity part of the agreement because they feel like it. [/quote]
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