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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote] Really? At one point I was paying $2,100/mo in Maryland. So a year's tuition at UVA was being paid in CS by me.[/quote]

If your kid was a MD resident, $2100 is not even close to enough to cover a year of college at UVA.  Also, many parents pay for college and still cover their kids’ other expenses (college is only 8 months a year) - paying cs is the bare minimum for a parent.[/quote]

Exactly - UVA is what, 30k/year? The guy is a jerk. It's the parent with most assets (not the one who cheated) should pay. Children are not guilty for their mother or father cheating. But it's usually cheating dads who think CS is all they owe to kids

Any woman who considers having kids should have minimum expectations from men and rely only on her financials for kids' college. That's the unfortunate truth. My exH is a millionaire, he  doesn't want even to pay $50 for private lessons couple times a month for our special needs child. I pay[/quote]

It's my XW who is the jerk who thinks she shouldn't have to pay anything - and in fact refuses to pay for the things she explicitly agreed to pay in the separation agreement. That's the unfortunate truth.[/quote]

Then you should take her to court and request reimbursement. She will owe your attorneys' fees as well. But it's a responsible parent obligation to maintain kids financially as you're figuring all this out[/quote]

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