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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here- my mom has literally been sending me and my sisters screen shots from Brene Brown that have been taken out of context. The way she is interpreting it is enabling. I'm irritated. I can't cancel, it's too late now. [/quote] OP. Your Mom is always going to take BS' side and not the twin's. Just the dynamic. Incredibly, you don't have much of an issue with that. You rightly have the issue with your parents' insistence that you not obtain apology, acknowledgment or accountability out of your BS. That's the 'crime'. All you can do is hold fast that there will not be interaction if that discussion isn't had. And by had, with the BS taking responsibility, not with your Mom coddling her through it. Invite your parents to your location for one afternoon/evening on Saturday, your BS can be wherever she is during that time. Leave it at that. You want the kids to see their grandparents, but not at the sacrifice of your dignity or sanity.[/quote]
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