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Reply to "Boyfriend is NOT a planner- do you have this dynamic?"
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[quote=Anonymous]OP, sounds like you're over him and the relationship. I am sure in your position I would feel the same way and would want to maximize my limited "me time" away from my kids. He's either not that into the relationship, or didn't really want to go, or wants to be with a 'cruise director', none of these are that great for you. FWIW, DH is a great planner and a spread sheet guy, which I loved in the first few years when I was overwhelmed with work, but as time went on, it started to annoy me that all our trips were planned to optimize his schedule, hobbies, favorite restaurants, etc. He tried to please me as well, but the planner usually gets their way. Accordingly, over time, this aspect of our relationship have shifted and I probably do more trip planning now, and even farther in advance, just so that I can control more of what happens on our vacations. [/quote]
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