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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’d be disappointed it happened but would not blame my DH.[b] In this situation, you set him up to fail by doing 90% of a task, and asking him to finish it for you with the expectation he’d understand all the same context and details.[/b]

How was he supposed to know you’d ordered an extra for sizes? Did he know how much they cost? Was he even aware that this task was important to you? The biggest question mark here for me is why you went to the trouble of ordering multiple tuxedos, checking sizes, and then asked your DH to pack them. Why didn’t you just do it? If you needed help with packing, why not ask your DH to handle something that he had the right context for, like packing the kid’s non-wedding clothes?

You say this happens a lot but based on this example, I’m wondering if you frequently ask your DH to read your mind. You are mad at him for grabbing the wrong two of three identical black outfits. That seems unreasonable to me— he might not even have realized there was a third one.[/quote]

NP, just wanted to say this is an insightful comment that I will try to remember for not setting my own DH up to fail. [/quote]

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