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[quote=Anonymous]What a great thread, I can't believe I missed it months ago!

Thank you to the ladies who shared their experience (and their child's experience) being the 'only' in class.  On the flip side, I went to a diverse high school with kids from primarily middle/lower income families.  On paper, the school resembled the United Nations.  Within the classrooms it was a different story.  The honors/AP classes had 2 or 3 black students (all girls) per grade, so if you were on this track, you still had a high probability of being the only black student in the classroom.

As I'm sure you can guess, this introduces yet another set of complications.  I didn't really relate to the white kids, yet I wasn't black enough for the black kids.   When I was a sophomore, I remember pretending to dumb myself down just so I could fit in with a particular group of girls (luckily my mother quickly put a stop to that)  I really didn't feel comfortable in my own skin until I went away to college (also an HBCU!)

My DC is only a toddler, so we have a few years before we have to make any big decisions.  I don't want him to be the only black student in his class, but I'll be damned before he wastes his potential to impress his peers.  If I had a daughter, I think I would be more inclined to choose diversity over academics….but it seems so easy for boys to lose focus, I'm hesitant to take that risk with my son.  I wish I had a solution for you ladies….best of luck.  [/quote]

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