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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Dude you’re already too old now for any man to want to start a family with you. [/quote]

There are many  55-60 year old moms of high schoolers in my son’s school.. It’s not that uncommon for career oriented women to have kids in late 40s now. I can imagine that not all of them used a sperm bank.  Not that only men can afford late birth thanks to advancement of medicine. In fact, biologically an older mother is not as bad for the baby health as older father.  Women just no longer can get pregnant with their own eggs, but they can carry to full term safely up until 60 yo. [/quote]
Having a child at 41 or 42 is very different than at 48. [/quote]

How is it different, did you have a child at 48? I know at least 4 women who had kids after age 45. All tell me it’s the best decision they’ve made. One is a highly paid MD (adopted a black girl with mild autism at 47), another adopted at 51 an Indian girl with some tribal rights over the child (after a 20 years childless marriage); a third got accidentally knocked up at 44 and retained 50% custody of her son in a bitter battle with a powerful dad; #4 had twins at 48 (divorced much older dad at 60 but they are on very good terms he continues residing in her house helping with kids while she dates her boyfriend in London). Again, all women are extremely grateful for their kids; they were well off when the kids “arrived” and all of them are thriving. Kids with developmental delays are now excelling at school; athletic sports and music.  Moms are now in their 60s but look way younger and have husbands or boyfriends their age. [/quote]

The thought of this particular OP adopting a non-white child is absolutely horrifying.[/quote]

So is the thought of her adopting (or having) a child with developmental delays or any other issues rendering the child imperfect to her. Note how she insists that "Kids with developmental dealys are now excelling at school, athletic sports and music." Can that happen? Of course. But is OP oblivious to the work and emotional toll involved for the entire family and support system as well as the child? Yes.  [/quote]

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