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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote] Why men are "allowed" to have kids with younger women in their 50-60s but it's not ok for a woman?[/quote]

This is a very dumb idea for those older men AND the younger women even if it’s “allowed”.

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President Tyler's (1841-1845) grandson is still alive. [/quote]

99% of people commenting here are locked in stereotypes that women have hot flashes in late 40s that don't allow them to raise kids successfully. This is indeed very strange for the US in particular. There are many way poorer countries where women are basically "babysitters" for their own grandkids in late 40-50s and they do the lion's share of the household responsibilities. I was brought up by my grandmother while my mother worked (they divorced with my dad when I was only 1 y.o.). My grandmother took a role of a "SAHM" whereby my mother was at work 7am-9pm making money. Maybe this is why I don't see child rearing in late 40s so disastrous. 
Also, many threads on this forum are related to lack of financial resources, career challenges related to child birth, men not happy when women stay at home or other way around, alimony, child support etc. When you already accumulated certain assets and achieved certain income level by your 40s, all these issues are easy to resolve. I do feel I would bring way more to the table to a man who wants a real family in my 40s vs what I can bring in my 20-30 y.o. self.

These are all theoretical questions, but I am indeed bothered how lopsided the society is in relation to older mothers. It's almost like everyone is telling you: time to enjoy your life, kayaking, hiking and dating. Kids will take all the enjoyment from you.

But I just don't feel that way, as having my first child was a very enjoyable experience and enriched my life immensely. All these kayaking groups and dating won't bring me a long term sustainable feeling of fulfillment and family stability.

My grandmother was telling that people live as long as others still need them on Earth. [/quote]

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