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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Men in their 40’s/50’s want to play the field and hook up. They’re fine with hooking up with 40’s women[/quote]

+1 if you’re a woman and also looking for hookups/FWB, it’s great! If you’re looking for a long term exclusive relationship leading to marriage, not so much. [/quote]

This is true. You could have 50 lovers if you don't care about commitment or exclusivity[/quote]

Except that none of them love her, and quite a few don't respect or like her. [/quote]
Precisely. I don’t know how women can count having multiple men without love and certainly without respect as a win. Literally any toothless hobo with a wet hole can get that. Unnattached male sexual attention is the cheapest, most abundant resource in the world.[/quote]

I know this might blow your mind, but it's because that kind of attention serves a purpose at a time in our lives when we don't want anything more. [/quote]

Well you might get an std [b]or you could just go to therapy.[/b][/quote]

I could suggest the same to you. Sexual repression is not healthy. [/quote]

No one has gotten sick or died from it.[/quote]

Of course they have. Since time immemorial, women have been depressed, persecuted, shamed and killed. You’re a miserable woman hater deep down no matter what you tell yourself every morning.

-NP, happily married 43 y.o. woman[/quote]

WTF? This is a thread about a woman who has sex all around town, sometimes with depressed men in marriages, and somehow you are some married 43 year old woman with nothing to do saying it's better for her to go out and have sex on the sly with your husband rather than being single? The world has gone mad. Why are you on here? Why do you care what any single woman does much less one not having sex with anyone?[/quote]

No, that's what YOU want the thread to be about. The fact is that there are several women responding (me, and I'm not OP) about having prospects even though we are in our 40s, don't want a lifelong commitment from a man and enjoy sex. You INTERPRETED that from at least my posts that that means I'm having sex with anything that walks and am somehow an unpaid prostitute. You are trying your damnest to vilify anyone who dares to be free of your judgment for the way we choose to live our life.

So here it is for you again, I am 43 F, I don't need or want a lifelong commitment from a man. Maybe that will change at some point, who knows. I have raised my kid, I have a great job, I own my home, I enjoy sex.  The fact remains that I can still get quality dates from desirable men.  If that's somehow threatening to your way of life, I suggest therapy. [/quote]

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