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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Is SIL your DHs sister? So the parents in question are DH's parents? If that's the case then I might help them out. If it's a more remote relation then no way.[/quote] Yes, that’s the relationship. I want DH’s parents to go, obviously… but I feel like this isn’t our responsibility and it’s not chump change for us either [/quote] They’re his *parents.* You have to pay their way. Wouldn’t you do the same for your own parents? [/quote] Not OP - No, I would not just pay without saying something. I would have a direct conversation with my sibling and let them know they put me and our parents in a terrible position. I would suggest as PP did that they have a family only local wedding and drop the whole destiation BS. OP's DH seems to think it's easier to suck it up and piss off his wife than have a direct conversation with his sister about her selfishness.[/quote]
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