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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]lol @ the one, lonely bitter woman taking the mom's side in this thread.  Who hurt you?[/quote]

I'm neither lonely nor bitter.  I live with my husband who is an excellent, actual father.  I just think it's hilarious how a "dad" who's done exactly the legal minimum can claim to be aggrieved and get automatic "yeah women are always alienating kids" comments.  Alienate from what?  He lived on another continent.  And his complaint isn't that he doesn't see his daughter enough, or know her better, it's that *she* doesn't call *him* on his birthday.  Who hurt you to have such low expectations of men?  [/quote]

OP here I offered to have her live with and to go to high school here. Her mother would not allow it. All visits were surprised. When my daughter came here the mom came too with her brother. I flew multiple times a year.
The mom said in her recent email all troubles started when k remarried and had my daughter. This is not true not fair to blame a baby. I have multiple emails dating back to 2004. Some where she said my daughter doesn't want to speak to me as no Christmas gift arrived on time. Or child support wasn't the amount she wanted. I'm sorry big which 10 year old asks for pay stubs??[/quote]

Not having a gift arrive on time is important to children. They're childish. You blame the MOM for that? Because she was the one explaining it to you in an email? Also, your offer to uproot her and have her attend high school in the US, do you really think a teenager would want to do that? You sound totally unrealistic and willing to blame all of your problems on the mom.
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My daughter wanted to have the American high school experience. My ex said no as it would reduce her child support[/quote]

LOL I'm sorry to continue making this about the mom, but COME ON. See, you don't understand being a parent, because you've never been one. You imagine her mother doesn't want her to go to another country BECAUSE OF THE CHILD SUPPORT?? Ha ha, how ridiculous. I wouldn't want my kids to go live in another country, either. Then again, I can't imagine moving away from my own children.

Again, you are completely unrealistic about what being a parent means. Imagine if someone suggested your 3 year old daughter move to another country. Presumably with her you can understand the parental bond.[/quote]

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