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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Sorry, team DH, and I am a woman.

Someone who can’t set and reach goals because of lack of self-disciple and accountability is a TURN OFF.[/quote]

Then wouldn’t you say that in a kind and mature way vs making snide comments? He sounds like he’s not ready to be in an adult relationship.[/quote]

It’s clearly a pattern as evidenced by the comments “not this again?!”

If OP said “Screw you DH, I think I look great and eat healthy” that would be fine. There is nothing wrong with 5’2” 130.

It sounds like the issue is that DW thinks she should lose weight, claims as much, but then turns around and stuffs her face. 
There is a reason being fat is considered low-class and this is it; it reflects lack of accountability, which is, again, a huge turn off and difficult not to lose respect and develop contempt, which clearly her DH has. [/quote]

Let’s all sit here in awe of the sheer awfulness of this ^ woman. Dear god.[/quote]

I know, right? It's like she downloaded sexist talking points from her first boyfriend and never got a clue.[/quote]

This has nothing to do with sexism, sex, or gender. It’s just about the fact that listening to someone set goals and then make excuses over and over and over gets old and makes the prospect of being tethered to such a person for life very unpalatable.

My bias is not because of a talk track from an ex boyfriend, it’s from having a husband who is overweight, gets lectured by his doctor, says he wants to lose weight, and then stuffs his face and makes excuses about it. I don’t even care about his appearance, I just can’t stomach the lack of accountability. And yes it spills over into other areas of life also. [/quote]

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