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[quote=Anonymous]Op, dId not read the whole thread. I think many people who have dysfunction in their lives become EV emotional vampire. They are tedious to be with and they are not contributing to your joy or well being, instead they ar Debbie Downers,  Maybe they can’t help their behavior, but they expect support and your time.

Those who have overcome their dysfunction are usually not looking for sympathy or a supportive listening from you.  In other words they are not needy, clingy, whiny and entitled.

To be frank, the fact that you started this thread and are now arguing your point makes me peg you as an emotional vampire.  People just don,t want to be with such people. NORMAL people from functional families are self sufficient emotionally or they have relationships with family members and friends that meet their needs. They do not expect to have emotionally fulfilling relationship with everyone because they understand the boundaries of others and they also protect their own boundaries.

In the light of my words, go reread everything that you have written. You are needy with people who are not interested in or equipped to meet your needs or understand your behavior and that is very uncomfortable for others.

In short, your question should have been asked to your therapist. [/quote]

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