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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think the people who say working from home for both of them is amazing. Either are super codependent or are lying to themselves just so they can keep working from home.

I honestly think both people working from home is the kiss of death for a marriage because like others have said being with the same person 24/7 is just not healthy in the long term. There is literally nothing to talk about. Nothing new to discuss. Nothing exciting. There are no surprises or anticipation of seeing the person again. I think in some rare cases for each person has a lot of outside the house, hobbies and activities and interests this could possibly work ... So if my husband and I worked from home all day but he had golf for nights a week and I had book club three nights a week. I could see that this arrangement could perhaps stand the test of time because we would both have some alone time. Or if he traveled a lot for work or visited his parents a lot without me. 
But just cooped up in a house all day together. Never having an ounce of alone time would kill me both mentally and physically[/quote]

+100000!! Yes, all of the above. it's sad the OP's husband doesn't see it this way or care that the OP feels this way too. [/quote]

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