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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You are a psycho. Seek help.[/quote]

No. She is a woman with a poorly taught husband who complains and is lazy. And she is rightfully mad. Being mad because people treat you like crud is not crazy. [/quote]

If a man were on here saying he dumped laundry on his wife we would be lighting him on fire. [/quote]

OP here. Rarely, women won't do laundry. Men don't do that because they don't have to. [/quote]

My husband does the majority of laundry in our house. DH and I divide things pretty equally and have jobs that bring in roughly the same money. We have disagreements and sometimes ask each other to pick up slack or finish up on X thing that needs to get done.

But here’s what: dumping something on someone is a physical act of aggression. And that is never OK. Never. If he kept a record of your actions for divorce court, you can bet this one would come up and would paint you in a psycho light.[/quote]

Hopefully the DH has photo evidence of all the injuries and bruises he got from the clothes falling on his head.  :roll: [/quote]

All he needs to do is keep notes of days/times of inappropriate behavior. It doesn’t have to be violent to show a pattern of inappropriate, unstable behavior. OP would not come off looking good if that story were told in a courtroom or in arbitration.[/quote]

Please, no one is interested in that.  My ex husband used to take away my wallet and my cell phone so I couldn't go anywhere.  Our custody is 50/50 because how he treated me does not impact his parental rights, the child support was set according to the formula, and no alimony, since we are equal earners.   Basically, it's not illegal to be a jerk.[/quote]

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