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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I feel so vulnerable (and downright weird) posting this, but I don’t feel like I can talk to my friends and family about it and I figured that a parenting site might be my best bet for insight. I had twins 3 months ago and after a fairly traumatic birth (e.g., among other things, I needed a blood transfusion), I don’t have the desire to be as intimate as my husband does. Before kids, we were intimate about twice/week and now it’s dropped to about half of that, but after we put the twins down at night every night he is all over me. I just feel totally touched out holding and feeding babies all day, but he feels rejected when I say no almost every night of the week since I’m too tired. His drive is way higher than it ever was for the 10+ years that we’ve been together since I gave birth. I guess I’m just wondering if this is normal and just a phase (either on his part or on mine)? And in case it’s helpful to know, we were not intimate much during pregnancy, so I’m wondering if that has something to do with his change in drive?

Anyway, in the event that this post isn’t too explicit to be deleted, thanks for any perspective! [/quote]

if it’s once per week that’s within only 3 months of having twins, wow, I don’t think I was ready for anything after 3 months
he may be desiring you more than ever because of the gift of twins you got him, he’s just happy out of his skin, but he shouldn’t even dare to pout that you feel not in the mood, he may have just high drive from the feelings of love he has for you and the twins and he doesn’t know how to channel that or control it
or he could just be selfish, either way just do what you feel right, you feel horny go for it, you don’t tell him you can barely move let alone have shower before and after and give him more chores so he understands life it’s not just sex[/quote]

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