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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]He’s ridiculous. He should be helping you with the twins and helping you get pelvic PT to recover from your birth, not harassing you for sex. Sorry but you’re at the start of a long marathon, and if you don’t get time to relax and rest now you will be extremely depleted by the end of the year. Tell him what you need to feel rested and healed and put yourself first. He’s an idiot if he doesn’t see what you need.[/quote]

Sex is a part of marriage and this is a terrible opinion. No man is thinking of helping their wives get pelvic PT.  :lol: Get outta here! Sex can take a few minutes at minimum, it really ain't that hard to do.[/quote]

Sorry your standards are so low for yourself (or your husband?).

Some of us have great husbands. OP, my husband was extremely hands on with the baby, did night parenting, and didn’t think of pressuring me for anything. We’ve been married for 15 years and going strong in all respects unlike some of the marriages you hear about on here. It’s in large part because he respects me and loves me unconditionally, not just as a convenient hole.

You’ve had a traumatic birth with twins. I hope you give yourself a break and don’t listen to some of the idiots. Truly hope they are trolls.[/quote]

Sorry that after 15 years you think of your husband wanting it as being a "convenient hole." What an exciting marriage you must have. [b]How stupid is using the excuse of having a baby to not have sex with your husband? So sex is supposed to come to a screeching halt because you gave birth? [/b]Your husband must either have ED, low testosterone, isn't turned on by you or is cheating. [/quote]

Actually, yes, sex is supposed to stop after birth, for awhile. (That doesn't stop some men from raping their wives while they're still in the hospital though). And it's expected that a newborn will disrupt things for a few months at least. In this case, there are two. Normal men get this, and if they're frustrated by it, they shut up and use their hand. [/quote]

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