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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Are you mad about the money?

Are you mad he has friends and you don’t because you trail?

Are you mad he won’t include you?

Are you mad he doesn’t want to spend time with you after work?

If you can narrow down the actual issue, it might be easier to find a solution.[/quote]

1. I'm incredibly lonely.
2. Once in a while, I would like to eat meals that someone else cooked and/or are fresh.[/quote]

If you are telling your husband both these things and he is doing nothing to respond, then you have a much, much larger issue that going out to lunch.[/quote]

This.  :? This was hard to read. Painful. If it hadn't included the trailing spouse bit, I would have thought it was me posting from the past about my now ex husband. I'm sorry OP. It's odd that people are posting instructions about ordering take out. The food is not the issue.

[quote] You ask him to get lunch and he's already got other plans and won't take you to lunch or diner? There is a bigger problem here. Test him. Ask him to meet you for lunch way in advance like say next friday before he has time to make other plans with other people. [/quote]
OP I would try this and go from there. If he comes up with weird excuses to get out of it, you might want to look at next steps.

I can't imagine wanting to do what he's doing anyway! I love my team at the office but I don't want to hang out with them all day every day. No thank you!!  :lol: 
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