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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]….how do you manage not repeating this with you own kids?

FTR I don’t hit my kids. But I will admit to sometimes being so filled with rage when they are being especially difficult that I get overwhelmed with the urge to do what I experienced as a kid. I always manage to fight it off but it is hard. Harder than I think it should be.

Anyone else in similar shoes? If you were beaten (whatever your own definition of corporal punishment is and your own line of what’s acceptable) do you have a hard time avoiding a repeat of the past? [/quote]

I was spanked as a child. Probably 3 times. However, my parents were never in rage when spanking me. Usually, we would have a long conversation beforehand about what I did. I remember one night we had a long conversation at the table and I thought I was getting spanked that night, but my dad said they were too upset so we would postpone for the next day. Honestly, the worst part about spanking in my experiences was the long conversation before and after you got spanked. I always felt an embarrassment of how what I did was just so wrong. My spankings were always for serious offenses. I don't think I will spank my kids, but I wonder how I can get my children to have remorse about doing super wrong things. The one distinct spanking I remember was that in elementary school I stole one of my tests from a teacher so they couldn't report my grade and lied about it until one of my friends finally told the truth. It had gone on for weeks and I had lied in so many ways I started forgetting my lies. Today I wouldn't spank my child b/c of how society views spanking and because I am an extremely soft person. I think if I got spanked for random stuff here and there I would resent my parents.  [/quote]

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