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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This thread totally reinforces my belief that no one like adoption. I've never heard of anyone be grateful they were adopted and most wish they were aborted.[/quote]

OP here. It's complicated.

What I feel most of all in angry that my mother was punished for being a sexual person. This anti Roe nonsense from Alito is very "triggering" for me, though I hate that term.

I wish:

--my mother would have had access to good birth control, which she didn't because she was unmarried in the 60s
--my mother would have had access to legal abortion, which she didn't because it was pre-Roe
--That if my mother didn't choose an abortion, HER CHOICE, that she knew she had a loving family that would have welcomed us both regardless
--That my father wasn't such a egomaniac, selfish, arrogant jerk who would have stood by my mother
--that there wasn't this raging double standard, that you still see on here, that women should just "keep their legs closed" 
--that adoption is pushed because babies like me are/were commodities
--that the adoption would have been open, so I could have met my birth family at 18 years or so.
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You are upset at trauma in the world. I'm sorry. Life has suffering. It's not because of you. Maybe you could spend your time working on these things to pass on goodness to the world and yourself:

1. How to manage your own sexual desires and encounters.
2. How to manage good healthcare for yourself and good health laws for you.
3. How to be a loving person yourself and manage your emotions
4. How to attract and work with men who are balanced individuals. And how to be balanced yourself
5. How to feel confident in your sexuality and keep up good health
6. How to welcome children into your family and community
7. How to keep good relations with your family
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Are you talking about me personally or helping others to understand this for themselves?

I have a 38 year marriage and grown children. I have a lot of friends and a 40 year career in an industry I love.

I am not the issue. I was wronged and I am angry the Baptists and other religions try to punish women for sex.

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