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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. Wow, I didnt realize I wrote that in 2020.

DD now 15 is doing so much better. She still identifies as non binary, but has completey accepted her feminine body. She has a girlfriend going on one year now who also identifies as non binary.

DD accepts that I tried but failed to integrate they them pronouns into our communications, but she understands that its not because I do not accept her identification. In fact her acceptance of they/she is organic to her.

She has also for reasons unknown suddenly decided she wants a male therapist, and I found one! A DBT therapist who happens to be male. Wasnt looking for that, but its who was available, and she later revealed this was something she wanted. Prior to that, she definitely did NOT want that.

She worked with a (female)  therapist for some time who helped her work through some traumas. Good work done at the time when she was ready to do it.

Her level of self acceptance has been hard won, but its arrived. At least the foundations for it have been laid.

She no longer has an interest in binders. She alternates between different looks, and I find her sports bras that allow her to have different levels of support/flatness. A creature of comfort, she doesnt wear them for long.

Antidepressant medication made a HUGE difference along with the therapy.

We talk openly about her attraction to girls and boys, and I playfully tease her about being clearly more attracted to girls. [b]SHe jokes that the saying that bi girls/non binaries have is: "Im bi, which means Im attracted to girls and a few anime characters".[/b]

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Haha. Glad to hear she’s doing well. [/quote]

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