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[quote=Anonymous]Here's one more thing that no one talks about.  Yes, sometimes one spouse wants it when the other doesn't, and the non-wanting spouse accommodates the other one. Usually, the accommodating partner is female, because to have sex, a woman only has to cooperate, and the man 'typically' has to be somewhat into it.

There have been times in the past in my marriage when DH wanted it, and I didn't, and I accommodated him orally or just letting him do me.  I also don't think that's unusual for women at least some of the time in their lives.

Now that the shoe is on the other foot, I beg and I plead for him to use his fingers or his mouth if his penis isn't operational.  But for some reason he is not inclined to do it. He has to be "into it" or it doesn't happen. So it doesn't happen.  I wish the anatomy or the male mindset would permit men to cooperate when a woman wants it and the man doesn't.  I have not seen it happen that way when the partner with no desire is male. [/quote]

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