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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Chiming in that frequency defaults to lower drive spouse. I'd like it 4-5x/week and get it once every 4-6 weeks. [/quote] Long poster here. I commented a bit on this earlier in the thread and in particular a blog post from Dan Savage's blog that discusses exactly your point. I think the PP you are quoting was more saying, yes, usually in relationships where no one is trying, it defaults to the lower spouse's sex frequency, but the presumption shouldn't be that it's the lower-desire spouse's fault and that he/she needs to bring it up to the higher-desire spouse's level either. The presumption should be that BOTH partners figure out a way to be happy in the middle somewhere. [/quote]
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