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[quote=Anonymous]OP, one of the biggest gifts yiu can give both your future husband and yourself is to have your own, separate relationships with friends and family. One day, you may even have a relationship and time with your MIL completely separate from your then husband. It’s very nice to think of marriage as a permanent thing, but the reality is, it often isn’t. Perhaps FMIL wants to discuss things like updating her will, or end of life care, or something that may not include you. Mostly - relax and let go of the reigns, or you will be in for a long and difficult life. You cannot control everything your FH does, nor should you want to or try to. All of his free time shouldn’t necessarily be devoted to you. And as has been stated - not everything in life is all about you. [/quote]
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