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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op here. Thank you for the helpful responses. What is my next step here- I already found Al Anon meetings near us. Do I confront him when he gets home from him work trip that I found this and he needs to get help? Do I tell my in laws for support (I will be seeing them in the morning tomorrow without him) Do I tell him now while he's gone that I found it Do I leave the bottle and wait until I notice its gone[/quote] I'm a DP and bumping this post in hopes "been there, done that" spouses can come back and advise OP on these detailed and important points. I don't feel qualified to answer these definitively other than to say that possibly Al-Anon could be a source for answers to these questions, if you can get to a meeting, online if needed, before he comes back. But do other PPs with real advice (and not just criticism of OP, or the useless "it's an affair!" parrots) want to help OP out with these? [/quote]
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