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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Have you ever thought about whether you should make yourself more attractive, better in bed etc. so she didn't feel that way? Sometimes it's the wife but you should make sure it's not you. Also, cheating is unforgivable, good luck living with yourself

--wife who doesn't treat sex as a chore[/quote]

How do you know if you aren't good in bed if your wife won't give you suggestions?[/quote]

She probably doesn’t know what she likes.  Despite popular belief, a lot of women fake enjoying sex.  They fake it more when they don’t enjoy it because they know that it will be over faster if they feign enthusiasm.  So, it’s entirely possible that neither you nor your wife have any idea what she likes.

So, find a book or a video on how to give good oral sex.  Try some new things.  Ask your wife if she likes it.

For all men complain about this, even otherwise hardworking men are shockingly lazy about learning how to pleasure their wives.  [/quote]

Seriously. How do you know… I mean, have you tried asking? Really asking, not just like one or two questions. And really listening and responding. Start just on something non sexual like cuddling and really ask what feels good to her, and keep learning. That level of intimacy and caring leads to genuine physical connection.[/quote]

+1.
Have you tried finding an hour where she doesn’t have responsibilities to attend to then (by her definition, not yours), and then asking her what she likes?  She might not be able to tell you because she doesn’t know or because sex is over just as she is getting turned on.  Maybe lightly stroking her back turns her on, you never know unless you try it and ask.  [/quote]

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