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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Novelty and youth really do have an impact on sex drive. I think it's a mistake for people to pretend otherwise. [/quote]

Bingo.

It's like a new vs used car. You have to put a lot of maintenance into it just to keep it running ok.

There is no replacement for novelty. That's why men are surprised that more effort still leads to less sex. Duh. You aren't new to her anymore. Not your fault. Ok, not always your fault but sometimes it is. [/quote]

Not for everyone. Some people chase novelty but after a while it turns out it’s just as boring.

Some prefer intimacy and being in love. You can still feel that way after over a decade if you have a real connection.

Don’t confuse novelty itself for the projection that happens when you don’t know someone well. If you really know someone and feel known by them it can keep getting better.[/quote]

Not saying you are right or wrong but how do you explain that the vast majority of couples either stop having sex or have it rarely after 20 years of marriage. Did 80% plus of people just marry the wrong person?[/quote]

I don’t know where you got 80% but yes, basically, many people are not perfectly compatible in every aspect needed for a long and strong marriage.[/quote]

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