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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Choosing to be with an AP is not the sunshine and rainbows you think it will be. All the children involved will have strong emotional feelings about the affair, and this will be a major source of tension on your relationship. As the female, you will always be viewed as the home wrecking wh@@e, no matter how unfair that stigma actually is. 20 years from now, people will still be whispering about you, and you can pretend not to care but you will always, always be the villain in the story. Every family event, every gathering of relatives, people will be whispering about it and it is exhausting. The life you imagine with him is not the life you will actually have. I don’t know why anyone would willingly choose this. [/quote] NP. This can be true but not always. I know 3 couples 20 years later and nothing you describe is true. Their lives are much better and there was not ongoing tension.[/quote]
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