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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous] Abuser Logic 101: it’s fine to tell your loving seven year old that her yammering excitement for daddy is going to get him canned and the whole family thrown out on the street, because it provides her with an explanation. It’s a teachable moment for DD, so it’s all good. [/quote]Maybe your husband has been provided many privileges, but my coworkers of color have been canned for having a pulse. There is even a post in the jobs forum about retaining the white males. I'm glad you have never had a father/husband/wife/breadwinner lose their job but it isn't always easy. OP didn't say what her parents' contribution to the rainy day fund was, nor did she mention a vacation/second home they could use should her husband lose her job. Read the post in this forum on contagious divorce about the executive losing his job and how it tore their family including kids apart. Yes, people moving into shelters in bad economies is REAL. OPs husband is a realist and she is a bully.[/quote]
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