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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]He gets ZERO discretionary spending or time. This was his bargain. His hobby is work. What he spends money and time on is work (money being spending money because he can't contribute to childcare). He doesn't get to watch sports, go to dinner with his buddies. He chose this and now he needs to spend 100% of his free time and money on your family. [/quote] Are you even married? This is the shortcut to divorce court.[/quote] I'm actually married to a big law partner who does 50% of the childcare and house work when he's not working. Because he's an adult who knows how babies are made and wants to be a good father and partner. If my husband decided to unilaterally ditch me with three kids he'd make up for it in other ways, aka by having no other life. As it is in my marriage, we both have lots of time for our friends and hobbies because we know the other spouse has our back. [/quote]
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